About Jen
Years ago, I was searching for something that would solve my needs in a marriage that wasn’t working. I was overweight, unhappy and generally depressed in a way no medication could cure. I toiled at a profession that wasn’t a career, but a proverbial albatross around my neck, which only exacerbated my angst further.
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Sure, I had a house, food in my cupboards, a dog to take care of and all of the materialistic things furnishing my home. Friends came over, we would go to restaurants, movies, friendly outings with
groups of people who were all similar to me. But, I lived in this world knowing I was different, knowing there was another world my current acquaintances could not and most likely, WOULD NOT understand or support.
The next step was to face my fear and insecurity and be true to who I wanted to be. It started with me,and it continues to be me. I went through a brutal six months of numerous surgeries; gastric bypass, body augmentation, exercise, switching jobs and finding myself.
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Eventually, when I finally had the nerve to enter a local swingers club… the skies parted and the angels started singing!!!! I had found my people and my community!!!
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Once I learned all about this supportive community that believes in non-monogamy, that there is honesty and communication, and yes.. wild, amazing mind-blowing sex… I have never turned back. The rest is history.
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I am now married to a wonderful life partner and we are fully immersed in the Lifestyle Community. My only regret is that I did not try and pursue this life sooner...
The Lifestyle Sherpa
I am now committed to destigmatizing the alternative coupling we call "Lifestyle." Lifestylers vary in age, race, religion, political affiliations and gender, but all are motivated by the power of sex positivity.
I want to reach the women and men who may be in an unhappy marriage and currently resent the fact they feel trapped. Lifestyle is a healthy option for anyone to try and experience, and it is my duty as your sherpa to guide you through common practices, both normal and abnormal.
Open.
My life is a series of open doors for you to experience with me. Whether I "play" with men, women or multiple partners, you will be on the journey with me.
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Lifestyle is a choice, but it is also important to open up with the honesty surrounding my current marriage and extending relationships. While my spouse and I are both Lifestylers, the way of life is not for everyone. There are real feelings of jealousy, envy, self-loathing and chemical dependency that can befall some relationships, mine notwithstanding.
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Therefore, your experience with me is as much of a peek into a secret world, as it is a cautionary tale.
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Enjoy and we will learn together.
